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All touch leaves an imprint on human beings.
Some kinds of touch are invasive and traumatic. Examples of traumatic touch
are sexual abuse (such as incest, sibling sexual abuse and rape); violence
directed at the person; witnessing violence or sexual abuse; neglect; and
verbal abuse. The effect of invasive touch is often devastating and always
significant. This kind of touch often leaves the person with a lifetime of
body symptoms and/or negative behavior patterns that seem unsolvable. It is
common that the health care generally used to resolve such symptoms and/or
patterns may worsen or reinforce the condition.
Intentional Touch™
is designed to address this reality head-on. It is an approach that
takes into consideration the negative imprint in the physical, mental,
emotional and/or spiritual system left by the trauma. Because of these
imprints from previous invasive, traumatic touch, this client population needs
health care tailored to their specific needs.
Intentional Touch™
is an approach to health care that takes into consideration several factors:
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Clients who have
experienced traumatic touch have specific needs when receiving health care
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A health care service
that is routine for most clients may cause significant trauma for this
client population
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The quality of the
therapeutic relationship is of profound significance
Those practicing
Intentional Touch™
have been trained to work with a heightened awareness and skill level
regarding clients who have a history of sexual abuse and other traumatic
touch. Statistics indicate that there is a strong likelihood that every health
care practitioner will encounter this client population. A majority of the
time, the health care practitioner will not know that their client has this
history. The Intentional Touch™
model insures that there will not be an inadvertent re-traumatization during a
health care session as well as significantly increasing the confidence of the
client in the practitioner, the modality used, and in their own body's ability
to respond positively. I have seen the most invasive procedures transformed
into fertile ground for profound healing from the past traumas as a result of
utilizing the Intentional Touch™
principles.
If you have a history of
sexual abuse, the following guidelines may assist you in choosing health
professionals that can meet your needs with the least risk of re-traumatization:
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Ask your health care
practitioners if they have an awareness and understanding of traumatic touch
issues
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Choose health care
practitioners that are willing to communicate with each other for your
benefit
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Inform health care
practitioners about your background. Disclose only the details comfortable
for you
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Seek a professional to
help you navigate the health care system, if necessary
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Trust your instincts
and experience - Do you feel listened to, respected, and included in your
treatment plan? If not, discuss this openly and ask your practitioner for
effort on their part to shift the therapeutic relationship
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